Happy Empty Nester Objects To Baby-Sitting All Weekend (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: Our daughter gave birth to an adorable little boy three years ago. We love "Connor" dearly, but my husband is obsessed with him. He wants our grandson at our house every weekend from the time we are done working on Friday until Sunday evening or Monday morning.more
Solitary Man Reaches Out, But Now Is Lonely In A Crowd (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: I'm a gay 44-year-old man with self-esteem problems. I have never seen myself as worthy of affection, and I don't consider myself attractive. I have never been in a relationship, and no one outside of my family has ever said "I love you" to me.more
Loud Music Ruins Reception For Many Wedding Guests (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: "Lost My Appetite in South Carolina" (June 1) walked out of a wedding reception after waiting for a delayed dinner and suffering through the DJ's "loud, deafening rock 'n' roll music." You chided the writer and suggested he should have asked the hosts to lower the volume somewhat. It's my experience this doesn't work. Insanely loud music is part of the contemporary American culture.more
Woman With Cancer Shouldn't Waste Time On Hateful Mom (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: My 89-year-old mother has always been difficult. She not only never loved me, she treated me as if she didn't like me, either. She told me she didn't send me a birthday card on my birthday last month because "What was it supposed to say -- what a 'wonderful' person you are?" My children visibly winced when they heard her say it and worked extra-hard to make sure my day was special.more
Rejected Senior Finds It Hard To Accept Neighbor's Conquest (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: I was involved with "Ralph" for two years. We live in a senior apartment complex, and women have been coming on to him for years. He is now seeing "Joan," who happens to be my neighbor. This hurts me deeply.more
Recent Widower Isn't Required To Follow A Dating Timetable (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: My wife and I were having dinner with another couple when a conversation ensued that divided the men's views from the women's. It concerned a recently widowed man (I'll call him "John") who is dating a woman from our wives' circle of friends, "Peggy." (Peggy is a widow.)more
In-Laws Pressure New Nurse To Give Them Private Care (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: I will graduate soon with a degree in nursing. This is a dream that is finally coming true. The problem is my mother-in-law expects me to take care of her and my father-in-law. They both have health issues, but nothing that requires 24-hour nursing care, and their medical issues can be resolved by simply taking their medications and following their doctors' advice.more
Guilt Keeps Couple Trapped In Mom's Basement Apartment (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: I'm 25 and live in my mother's basement apartment with my boyfriend. We would like to be married soon, now that we're out of school and have stable careers. But I insist that we move out of Mom's house before making any permanent plans.more
Siblings Suffer Consequences Of Mom's Disregard For Truth (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: My mother has a long history of lying in what appears to be her attempt to manipulate others. She is now 75, and my siblings and I know not to accept anything she says as the truth, and to always check with each other in order to find out the whole story.more
Feelings For Best Friend Are Burden For Bisexual Female (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: I am a 20-year-old female who has recently come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual. My problem lies in the fact that I am strongly attracted to one of my best friends. I have liked her for several years, and she is a large part of the reason I discovered I was bisexual. I know she is straight and won't ever feel the same about me, but every time I'm around her, my romantic feelings for her start up again.more
Sex And Drug Education Is Needed Now More Than Ever (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: When I was a young teen, my mother gave me a copy of your booklet "What Every Teen Should Know." She left it on my bed for me to read at my own pace, and let me know that I could come to her if I had any questions, when I was ready to ask them.more
Some Employees Work Hard While Others Hardly Work (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: I understand the frustration of "Takes My Job Seriously" (June 1), the supervisor who complained about her female employees requesting time off for kids' school and sports events or beauty appointments. Over the last few years I have noticed a decline in work ethic across the board.more
Angry Bride Wants To Wash Her Maid Of Honor Out Of Her Hair (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: I am being married in October and asked my best friend of 19 years to be my maid of honor. "Brianna" likes to dye the bottom of her hair red. I asked her to take the red out of her hair for the wedding, but she flat-out refused! When I told her that it is MY wedding and I don't want any red hair because it won't match my color scheme, her exact words were, "I don't care."more
Minister's Work At Funerals Deserves A Fee For Service (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: I am an ordained minister and a senior citizen. At the present time I do not have a position with a church. I rely on part-time work officiating at funerals and weddings and earn a very modest living.more
Woman Playing Boss At Work Wants Peaceful Role At Home (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: This summer, my boyfriend and I will be working together. I will be his boss. I want to maintain a professional environment while still keeping peace in the relationship. My boyfriend can be sensitive sometimes, so do you have any tips to help me separate my work life from my love life? -- STAGE MANAGER IN THE SOUTHmore
Women Who Live Alone Find Safety Inventing A Housemate (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: I am a 27-year-old woman who lives alone in a house I own. Sometimes strangers come to the house for various reasons -- plumbers, electricians, etc.more
Young Man Stuck In Neutral Must Grab The Wheel And Go (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: Nineteen-year-old "Hopeless in Chandler, Ariz." (May 21), said he doesn't know what he wants to do with his life. When I was his age, I didn't know what I wanted to do, either. I didn't want to go to college, the military didn't interest me, and nothing I could think of seemed appealing.more
Bi-Sexual Past Overshadows Couple's Close Relationship (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: My girlfriend, "Donna," and I have shared a wonderful relationship for nearly three years. During her college days she had a sexual encounter with her best female friend. (They had been friends since high school.)more
Man Schemes To Relive His 'Glory Days' Without Wife (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: My husband started exercising, is now on a strict diet and listening to love songs from the '60s. He has never been interested in these things before.more
Aging Parents' Go-It-Alone Attitude Can Be Dangerous (Dear Abby)
Dear Abby - DEAR ABBY: My parents are both in their 80s, and I try to stay in touch with them as often as possible. Unfortunately, one issue I cannot get through to them is when to call 911 for help. Example: If Mom trips and falls, Dad needs to call 911 rather than struggle to help her up. One or both of them could be injured due to lack of strength or ability.more